I haven’t had a lot of time to read all of the great things being posted in the genealogy and genealogy-adjacent history community, but I ran across a Substack post by Renee Stonebraker that gave me a new way to think about an old story.
The 1911 Callin Family History and the 1990 Callen Chronicles each relate stories about a girl (or a pair of girls) from a family of colonial settlers in Pennsylvania, and how they were taken from their homes during a raid by Native Americans. Stonebraker wrote a June 16, 2026 essay comparing the Native American and Puritan/Colonial societies that lived side by side in the 1600s and 1700s, and challenging assumptions that people like me have made about those who were taken. Stonebraker shares several examples of these types of abduction stories in which the women who were taken did not wish to return to the Puritan societies they came from, preferring to remain with their “captors,” and explains why. (The saucy title is only part of the history!)
When I have written about this particular pair of stories in the past, I focused on how little factual, confirmable detail we have, and how that plays into our habit of family history myth-making:
As we learn more about our collective family history, we inevitably learn more about the mythology America’s European colonizers built around their experiences. And it is important to keep in mind what mythology means, because “myths” are not simply “true or false.” When they are the stories we tell about ourselves, they can incorporate facts, capture elements of our self-image and of our aspirations, and they can shape the way we interpret which parts of the stories are factual.
Here’s a quick refresher:
A Callin Family Myth
The Callin Family History and The Callen Chronicles include what appear to be different versions of the same story.
Here’s George Callin’s version, which he probably learned from his father, William, a grandson of James “1st” Callin. It is worth noting that George never met William’s father, John, and William never met John’s father, James:
Record of Polly, Daughter of James 1st.
Born about 1782. Grew to womanhood in her Pennsylvania home. Was captured by the Indians, and started for the Indian country. Her father James 1st gathered some neighbors and militia and followed the trail, they were guided by bits of clothing Polly had from time to time stuck on bushes. After several days pursuit, the Indians with their captive were overtaken. In the skirmish that followed Polly attempted to escape by running. An Indian fired at her just as she fell over a log and he supposing her killed did not further molest her, there her father found her after the fight, and the men made a litter and carried her home.
She was shot through the knee, and for the want of proper surgical attendance, became a cripple for life. She never married, lived to be middleaged, and noted for the exemplary life she lived. The date of her death is unknown but somewhere about 1825.
A Callen Family Legend
The Callen Chronicles contains what might be another version of the same story (pages 17 & 19):
It may be about this same time [the spring and summer of 1778, when Patrick Callen was enlisted with Capt. John McCleland’s company escorting provisions to Fort Hand in Westmoreland county] that the story has been told about Patrick’s and Sarah’s identical twin daughters, their names uncertain. (35D) “During the Revolutionary War when there was much Indian activity in Westmoreland Co., the two little girls were kidnapped in an Indian raid when Patrick was away from home. The little girls were about five or six at the time, and both were taken. About 10 or 12 years later (after the Revolutionary War was over) a fur trader went into a remote Indian village, in far western Pennsylvania or Ohio, to trade with the Indians. While he was in the village he saw two young white women, about 18 years old, living with the tribe. One was the wife of a young indian brave and had a tiny baby; the other was unattached, but under the “protection” of a family in the tribe. During his visit he had no opportunity to talk with either of the women; however, after he had traded with the indians and left the village, he found one of the young women under the supplies in his canoe. She told him that she wanted to return to her white family; she said that she had talked with her sister before leaving and that her sister had wanted to remain behind with her indian family.” She was returned to Patrick and Sarah Callen – apparently just a short time before they moved to Armstrong Co. The story continued, “the returned daughter had not been injured or mistreated, the family that had taken her in in the tribe had treated her as a daughter. Though she never regretted returning to her natural family, she was often restless. She was a private person, enjoying her time alone and in the woods, and she was described by her nephew, Watson, as ‘special and different’. She had a way with wild animals that no one, not even her family understood. She was slender, tall, and very blonde but she spent every day in the sun and the wind and she was as brown as an indian. Watson said that his grandparents just let her be herself, and did not attempt to change her, but cherished her for who she was.”
Determining which parts of these twin stories are “true” is challenging. The account in The Callen Chronicles contains more details, including a mention of the relationship between Margaret (the twin who was recovered) and Patrick Callen’s grandson, Watson. It is also a less dramatic story, told in a way that sounds more factual, although neither story has any facts that are likely to be verifiable by research. My hunch is that the Callen Chronicles’ version of the story is probably closer to “true” and that the Callin Family History version told about “Polly Callin” was altered and adapted as George’s grandfather and great-uncle retold the story to their children in Ohio.
The nephew, Watson, mentioned at the end was a son of Hugh Callen, who founded Callensburg, PA, in 1825. It’s hard to know which of the known sisters of Hugh might have been carried off, or if the Chronicles simply didn’t include them. Hugh had a sister named Mary who was known as “Polly” (a common nickname for Mary). This Polly married a James Galbraith in 1815 and died in Kentucky in 1839, though, so she is not a serious contender for lead in this story, but it could be that the Ohio Callins remembered her name when they told their version.
Making Her Point For Her
Stonebraker tells us her thesis early on:
Colonial America in the 1600s and 1700s had two systems running side by side. Puritan society, where sex was a procreative duty and a woman’s satisfaction did not register as a category worth discussing. And a number of Native American societies, where female sexual autonomy was an accepted, parent-sanctioned norm, alongside legal autonomy, property rights, and the ability to leave a bad marriage without asking anyone’s permission.
Colonial women got to make that comparison, and a significant number of them chose Native life over their own. Not once. Repeatedly, across decades, across colonies, with women being recaptured and escaping again. They were telling Puritan society something, as clearly as a person can tell you something without ever publishing a word. Give us autonomy. Give us a say in our own pleasure, our own property, our own marriages, and we will stay.
The reaction of the Puritan men is a shining example of how religious white males handle everything: poorly.
Some obvious elements of the Callen Chronicles’ story resonate here (my emphasis, added):
While [the trader] was in the village he saw two young white women, about 18 years old, living with the tribe. One was the wife of a young indian brave and had a tiny baby; the other was unattached, but under the “protection” of a family in the tribe. …after he had traded with the indians and left the village, he found one of the young women under the supplies in his canoe. She told him that she wanted to return to her white family; she said that she had talked with her sister before leaving and that her sister had wanted to remain behind with her indian family.” …”the returned daughter had not been injured or mistreated, the family that had taken her in in the tribe had treated her as a daughter. Though she never regretted returning to her natural family, she was often restless.
If my theory about the two stories is correct, you can see how they evolved over years of retelling. Not only does the Chronicles version provide an example of a woman choosing life with the tribe over life with her family to add to Stonebraker’s, but the way the story changed demonstrates how the Callin men chose to rewrite the narrative.
Their version omits the nuance of one sister choosing her Native American family and the other remaining single and “restless” for the rest of her life. Instead, Polly is rescued – the “damsel in distress” trope – and shot in the leg, which is used to explain why she remained single in a way that did not suggest any sexual immorality took place.
The Truth Myths Can Tell
As I said, I don’t expect to ever learn “the truth” about what happened to “Polly” or “Margaret,” or ever get confirmation that the two stories are about the same event. But it is endlessly fascinating to learn about the times that my ancestors experienced and get a glimpse into how they thought about things.
I only hope that some of my writing answers the questions my descendants might have some day. More likely, they will be just as confused about what is true as I am!
Good hunting, cousins! (And go give Renee Stonebraker a read!)
















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