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Tad Callin has been working on family history and genealogy since the late 1990s. He does most of his research on Ancestry and posts what he learns to WikiTree.

  • A Valentine for Indiana

    Discovering the Shuffler family, part II

    Last week, I left off after making a few basic assumptions:

    • Benjamin Franklin Shuffler’s father was Valentine Shuffler, who appeared in the 1840 Census for Marshall County, Indiana.

    • Sarah A. Bailey, who swore an affidavit stating Valentine’s widow was Margaret Shuffler, was Benjamin’s sister.

    • Based on the 1840 census, there were seven more children to look for.

    But I still didn’t have any direct evidence that put Benjamin in Valentine’s household.

    I kept digging, thinking this would all be easily resolved as soon as I found one key piece of evidence. I found record after record that suggested I was on the right track, but something was missing to tie it all together: the 1850 Census.

    If His Daughter was Sarah…

    Sarah Ann (Shuffler) Bailey’s biography began to come together, but she was married in 1841; so while I could assert that she was in the 1840 household, she wouldn’t be in Valentine’s household in 1850, anyway. I needed to find more siblings.

    I did find a baptism record for “Sarah Anna Schaufler” in Trinity Tuplehocken Reformed Congregation Births, Lebanon County, Pennsylvania, 1800-56 on Ancestry. She was baptized in Lebanon County, Pennsylvania on 18 Feb 1821. Her birth date was recorded as 27 Jan 1821, father: Valentine Shaufler, mother: Maria Margaret Schaufler; sponsors: Benjamin and Anna Maria Schiffler. This is consistent with the birth information on her 1860 Census record – when she was listed as Sarah Shinabarger. (Several records confirm that after David Bailey’s death, John Shinabarger was Sarah’s second husband.)

    This means that the Valentine Shuffler I’m looking for probably originated in Lebanon County, PA. More on that in a bit.

    What About Other Children?

    I kept coming up empty with Ancestry searches for the 1850 Census, so I went to FamilySearch.org and turned up marriage records for three other women who were married in Marshall County and were likely siblings of Sarah and Benjamin. With luck, I could identify candidates to search for in the Shuffler household in 1850:

    • Secelia Shuffler1 m. George Sealey 24 Aug 1846

    • Mary B Shuffler m. David M. Carpenter 11 Dec 1852

    • Elizabeth Shuffler m. Henry Craig 27 May 1854

    As I did with Sarah Bailey, I was able to put together a fairly complete biography for Cecelia (Shuffler) Sealey Vancamp (1826-1906), despite the infinite number of ways the county clerks found to spell “Suscilia” or “Schaufler” – but because Cecilia was married in 1846, I knew she would not appear in the household I’m looking for in the 1850 census.

    Mary (Shuffler) Carpenter seems to have died before 1860, and not long after her marriage to David. He appears in his parents’ 1860 household as “single” and has no apparent children, so I assume Mary died, probably in childbirth; but there are no records stating when her death was. Elizabeth (Shuffler) Craig was difficult to find because there were too many couples named “Henry and Elizabeth Craig” in 1860 for me to ascertain which one was our couple. This was disappointing, as I had hoped to find their birth info from later records. That information would be in the 1850 record – but I was skeptical that the “Mary” and “Elizabeth” would be unique enough names to find it if “Valentine” wasn’t doing the trick.

    Too Many Valentines

    I also tried approaching the problem from the other side, looking for more records of Valentine himself, but I kept coming up empty. By now, I knew I was looking for a Valentine (probably) from Pennsylvania, arriving in Indiana by 1836, so I spent a lot of time digging around for more records in Lebanon County, PA.

    Georgia Roberts on X: "I've posted the same photo of Ralph Wiggum not getting a Valentines Day card on Instagram for a decade. Come with me on on this journey. 💖 https://t.co/XmZ8zLyc5O" /
    No Valentines for us, Ralph.

    The problem here stemmed from the fact that there is a Revolutionary War soldier named Valentine Shuffler (spelling may vary) who lived in Lebanon County, Pennsylvania, and a lot of other researchers consider that veteran to be the same person as our Valentine or the father of our Valentine.

    It is possible that my Valentine could have fought in the Revolution, depending on his age in 1855 – which we don’t know yet. Valetine’s age range on the 1840 census was “40-49” (pegging his DOB between 1791 and 1800), and in an 1832 affidavit of veteran Valentine’s testimony, he gave his age as 82 (DOB abt. 1750). Not a match.

    Other details don’t quite line up between Veteran Valentine and Indiana Valentine. Benjamin’s obituary stated that he was born in Ohio in 1833, and there was a “Valentine Soufler” in Israel Township, Preble County, Ohio, in the 1830 Census. Veteran Valentine’s affidavit put his then-current home in Lebanon County, Pennsylvania in 1832. This would seem to confirm the two were not the same man. (Unfortunately, Veteran Valentine’s Revolutionary War pension application does not mention any family.)

    Census records before 1850 are known for having little concrete information, but the Ancestry scan of the 1830 Israel Township page was unreadable. I hoped that by going to FamilySearch I could get a better version of the page and see how many children were in the household, and maybe narrow down Valentine’s date of birth.

    But instead of the 1830 Census, FamilySearch served up an unexpected result:

    The 1850 Census

    Valentine Shorfler2 lived in Plymouth (mistakenly recorded as “My Division”), Marshall County, Indiana, and was enumerated on 15 Oct 1850. He gave his age as 52 (est. DOB 1798) and was born in Pennsylvania. His wife was Mary M. (52, Pennsylvania), and their household included the following children:

    • Mary Shorfler – 20

    • Elizabeth Shorfler – 18

    • Benj Shorfler – 16

    • David Shorfler – 14

    • Margaret E Shorfler – 12

    • Amanda Shorfler – 9

    • Louisa Shorfler – 6

    So, there we have Mary, Elizabeth, and Benjamin, plus four more previously unknown children – two of whom (David and Margaret) fit in the “Under 5” categories for Valentine’s 1840 household.

    There are still a lot of questions and gaps to fill in – but finding this record validates all of the other work I’ve been doing around the edges, trying to establish Benjamin Shuffler’s parentage.

    I’m just salty about one thing – the one obstacle that kept me from finding this record days ago when I first started hunting for it. Does this look like “Shorfler” to YOU?

    screenshot of the "Shorfler" family on the 1850 census
    If the transcriber had seen “Shoufler” – like I do – I would have found this immediately!

    Thanks for reading Mightier Acorns! Subscribe for free to follow my quest—which is apparently to find every spelling variation of “Shuffler”.

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    2

    See previous footnote.

  • The Angry Doctor

    Another one of us – but where is his legacy?

    While updating the Callin Family History, I ran across another cousin who researched the Callin family. His name was Dr. Frederick Blecker Callin – and I am left with questions.

    Hugh Callin (1817–1856) was the youngest son of John and Elizabeth (Simon) Callin. He was born in 1817 while his family still lived in Pennsylvania. His older brother, William, was my 3rd-great grandfather, which makes Hugh my 3rd great-granduncle. Their sons were 1st cousins, and almost certainly knew each other:

    • John H. Callin – my 2nd-great grandfather; William’s oldest son, and author of the book of War Poems I published in 2022.

    • George W. Callin – John’s younger brother, and author of the 1911 “Callin Family History.”

    • Dr. Fred Callin – Hugh’s son, and the subject of today’s post.

    Origins

    Hugh married Barbara Ann “Barbary” Mathews (1826-1886) on 13 April 1843, and they settled on a farm in Milton township, not far from where Hugh grew up. In 1850, they are listed next door to a Mathews family, which may be Barbary’s parents, sister, and brothers. Hugh’s occupation is listed as “chairmaker,” and they already had two of their four children:

    • Mary Etta Callin1, born 29 Apr 1846, Ashland County, Ohio; married Jacob L Sattler, 26 Sep 1871, Ashland, Ohio; died 18 Aug 1913, Ashland County, Ohio.

    • John F Callin, born in 1850, Ohio; married Catherine Ann Steigerwalt, 26 May 1879, Ashland County, Ohio; died 27 Dec 1907, Ohio.

    • Frederick B Callin was born in 1854 – this post is his story.

    • Margaret L “Maggie” Callin was born in 1856 in Ohio. Maggie died, unmarried, on 19 Dec 1882 at the age of 26 and was buried in Ashland, Ashland County, Ohio.

    Hugh died on 17 April 1856, at 39 years of age. After Hugh’s death, Barbary’s older sister, Mary Mathews, appeared in the household on the 1860 Census, likely helping Barbary raise the children.

    In November 1874, Barbary married William Davis (1836–1915), a widower with three small children of his own. His first wife, Rebecca, had died in May 1874, barely two years after the birth of their son. Barbary died at the end of 1886, and her will was executed in January 1887. She left money, furniture, and bedding to her daughter, Mary Sattler, and her granddaughter, Amy (whom Barbary names in the will as “Emma B. Sattler”). She left the rest of her estate to Mary and to her son John, minus $133 he owed her. She specified in her will that the forgiveness of the debt of $400 she loaned to Fred when he went to medical school would be his bequest.

    Doctor Fred B. Callin

    Portrait of Fred B. Callin
    Dr. Fred B. Callin

    Frederick Blecker Callin (1854–1920) was only two years old when his father died, and was 22 when his mother remarried. As discussed above, Barbary loaned Fred the money he needed to attend medical school, and she forgave his debt as her bequest to him when she died in 1886. He graduated from Ohio Medical University, Columbus, in 1893, after returning from a year studying medicine in Germany. He established an allopathic medical practice in Akron, Ohio.

    He married Harriet R “Hattie” Crippen (1859–1944) in Ashland on 25 March 1883. They had a son, Sampsell Callin, in May 1884. Sampsell died in January 1887, and his brother, Moreland Guy Callin, was born that October.

    The Angry Doctor

    I always hesitate to judge people based on the records I find, but Fred seemed to get into a lot of trouble. As I’ve researched the various Callin families over the past two years, articles about Fred kept turning up in my other searches, painting a picture of a proud man who may have had a bit of a temper. He also seemed to incite the ire of those around him.

    In 1901, there were two newspaper items about an alleged violent incident between Dr. F.B. Callin (incorrectly named as “Frank” in the first article) and G.P. “Uncle Dry” Huddleston:

    image of a newspaper item - link in the caption
    Akron Times-Democrat, Akron, Ohio; “An Old Man,” Thu, Sep 12, 1901, Page 2.
    image of a newspaper item from 1901 (link in caption)
    Akron Evening Times, Akron, Ohio; “Had A Poker,” Fri, Sep 6, 1901, Page 13.
    Image of newspaper clipping from Akron Beacon Journal, 5 Decemer 1903 (link in the caption)
    The Akron Beacon Journal, Akron, Ohio; “Dr. Callin’s Statement.” Sat, Dec 5, 1903, Page 3.

    Another clipping from 1912 recounts a dust-up between Dr. Callin and a would-be poet:

    Akron, O., June 22 [1912] – It wasn’t an iceberg that struck M.L. Atwater, author of the poem, “The Titanic Struck an Iceberg,” but the fist of Dr. Fred B. Callin, Akron physician, according to the story the poet told the police today. Atwater asked Callin to buy a copy of the poem, and Callin asked to read it. Atwater held the paper up, but with the blank side toward Callin. Callin’s blank stare turned to wrath, and he is alleged to have slapped Atwater, first on one cheek and then on the other. The doctor was arrested on the charge of assault and battery.

    “Doctor Failed to Take Stock in a Blank Poem,” from The Chronicle-Telegram, 22 Jun 1912, Sat, Page 1

    Dr. Callin was sued for “performing a criminal operation” by a patient named Mrs. Clara Shinn in 1917, which was reported in the newspaper. The article seems to show that despite the incidents chronicled above, he was well-known in Akron, and had many friends, which made jury selection difficult.

    Fred planned to spend the winter of 1920 in Florida on his son’s farm, but after he arrived in St. Augustine, Fred unexpectedly dropped dead in the street on 28 March. After his death, his body was returned to Akron, and he was buried in Stow Cemetery.

    One Remaining Mystery

    Dr. Fred may or may not have been a genealogist himself, but he seems to have known who his relatives in Ireland were. He made a trip there in 1907, and despite writing to the relevant genealogical societies, no one has a record of this trip or any clues to learn more:

    Since there is no “County South, Ireland” I assume he visited County Louth – but again, I have found no evidence in any of the available resources.

    We keep digging, trying to learn more about our common Revolutionary War ancestor, James Callin, and looking for DNA matches.

    Rest well, Dr. Fred, and try to stay out of trouble!

    Thanks for reading Mightier Acorns! Just don’t offer us any blank poems, and we won’t slap your cheeks.

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    Mary Etta’s granddaughter was Margaret Althea Forbes:

  • A Valentine for Iowa

    Discovering the origins of Valentine Shuffler (1853-1916)

    Writing an accurate history means leaving out assumptions. Sticking only to facts and evidence, and refraining from speculation about things that we cannot know, such as personal motivations or attitudes of the people involved.

    But writing a complete history means adding a human element to the facts—putting what we know about the personal motivations and attitudes of the people involved back into the story so that we have some idea why they did the things they did.

    Sometimes, finding those facts in the first place requires us to make imaginative assumptions about the people named in other facts. Assumptions are tricky. Without them, we might not know where to look for more evidence; but we have to be careful and devise tests to tell whether the evidence we find is telling us what we wanted to know.

    This can be a real balancing act.

    The Starting Point

    Our starting point today is this guy:

    Valentine A Shuffler was the eldest child, and only son, of Benjamin Franklin Shuffler (1833–1915) and Ruth Dyer (1837-1899), born on 16 Aug 1853 in Indiana. When he was seven years old (in 1860), his family lived in Cass County, in the southeast corner of the Nebraska Territory, and by 1870, they had relocated to a farm 340 miles East, near Scott, Fremont County, Iowa.

    Valentine’s son was Frank Benjamin Shuffler (1888-1919), one of my wife’s Sixteen great-great-grandparents. I shared Frank’s story last year:

    I “know” some of Valentine’s ancestry from seeing what other researchers have shared on Ancestry and FamilySearch—but I don’t always see the evidence that supports what they claim, and even when that evidence is there, I don’t always see the chain of reasoning that led from a piece of evidence to a conclusion.

    In other words, my job is to challenge what I see by asking “How do you know that?” and examining the answers carefully before adding those answers to my tree.

    So, my task for today is to answer the question, “Who are Valentine Shuffler’s ancestors, and how did they get to Iowa?”

    We have three pieces of evidence to work with:

    • 1860 Census – the family of Benjamin “Shifler” (the transcription of what looks, to me, like “Shufler”) in Cass County, Nebraska Territory

    • 1870 Census – the family of Benn and Ruth Shuffler in Scott Township, Fremont County, Iowa

    • 1852 marriage record for Benjamin Shuffler and Ruth Dyer in Marshall County, Indiana

    Finding Facts

    I talked about the research I did to find Ruth Dyer’s family a couple of weeks ago:

    Her parents were Quakers from North Carolina, and that essay talked about how the records kept by the Society of Friends (aka, Quakers) in North Carolina tracked the Dyers family in Indiana.

    Traditionally (in other words, an assumption), a marriage took place where the bride or her family lived. So, the 1852 Marshall County, IN, marriage record of Benjamin and Ruth would normally indicate that the Dyer family lived in Marshall County. However, the Dyers’ records indicate that Ruth was born and raised in Wayne County, IN, and in 1850, the census showed her living in the household of her married sister, Mahala Cook (who we know about from the detailed records from North Carolina) – in Salem, Henry County, Iowa.

    map showing walking route (471 miles) from Wayne County, IN to Salem, IA via Marshall County, IN
    Wayne County, IN to Salem, IA, via Marshall County, IN

    Salem, IA and Marshall County, IN, are about 330 miles apart, and Wayne County, IN and Marshall County are about 175 miles apart; which makes me think that Benjamin’s family probably lived in Marshall County. Another assumption – but let’s see what we find there:

    • 1840 U.S. Census record in Marshall County, IN, for “Valentin Shoepler”

    • 1844 land record in Marshall County issued to “Volentine Shofler” for 168 82/100 acres in “the North West quarter of Section two, in Township thirty-three, North of Range one East, of the second principal Meridian, in the District of Sands subject to sale at Winamac, Indiana.

    • 1855 probate document for a man called Valentine Shuffler, including an affidavit from Sarah A. Bailey attesting that his widow is Margaret Shuffler.

    • The History of Indiana, vol. 2 (pg. 31 and 33) talks about the elections organizing Marshall County, held in Aug 1836 at the Plymouth court house in Center Township includes a list of known voters, which includes Valentine Shuffler.

    Further sleuthing turns up a marriage record in Marshall County for Sarah Ann Shoffler and David A. Bailey, dated 15 Apr 1841. Sarah A. Bailey, then, is probably the daughter of Valentine Shuffler.

    Resting on Assumptions

    None of these facts are, by themselves, “proof” that Benjamin is the son of this Valentine Shuffler in Marshall County, IN. But when taken all together, there are compelling reasons to conclude that this Shuffler family is the family of Benjamin Shuffler. Not only does his marriage to Ruth place him in Marshall County, but Benjamin named his oldest son “Valentine” in 1853 – and the younger Valentine named his son “Frank Benjamin” in 1888.

    Accepting these assumptions and facts into our story may be the right call, but they aren’t the end of the search. Now, we need to look for more information about Sarah Bailey and Benjamin’s other siblings – and see if we can trace their parents back east to where they probably married. Benjamin’s obituary stated that he was born in Brown County, Ohio, in 1833, about three years before his father’s appearance in Indiana. Other clues will likely arise as we chase down the other children who lived in the household in 1840.

    There are seven other children in that household – there are many facts and assumptions to be gathered and tested before we know who they all are!

    If you enjoy digging up facts and testing assumptions, subscribe to MightierAcorns. (If you don’t, how did you get this far? Do you need help?)

  • Exploring "Shirttails"

    Meet the Montgomery family

    A “shirttail relative” is a distant or honorary relative, such as a fourth cousin or family friend who is treated as a relative. For example, I am “Uncle Tad” in a few households where I bear no familial relationship – so that would make me a “shirttail” to those kids.

    As I assembled the Callin Family History for its 2022 publication, chasing down the descendants of James Callin meant that I was adding more and more shirttails to the family tree. These people would not necessarily know that we were related, or might not have had a “Callin” in their family for five or six generations. But thanks to the math of DNA, they are every bit as much a descendant of James Callin as I am.

    The Montgomery family

    Here’s just one example:

    I learned on 30 July 2018 that Elizabeth Callin married Caleb Montgomery in Richland County, Ohio, on 13 August 1822.

    I had thought I was done with my Callin Family History research, but this record set me off on a whole new quest – and I wrote about the find and what it meant in a post called Echoes & Rhymes on the old Mightier Acorns blog.

    Slowly, as I continued to dig and explore, I was able to piece together the story of James “2nd” Callin’s children and grandchildren, and the lesson I took from all of this was that the common advice to research your ancestors’ “FAN club” (Friends And Neighbors) is vital to uncovering the whole story of the past.

    The Montgomery family – Benjamin Montgomery (1766–1841) and Nancy (Ann) Nottingham (1768–1866) were early settlers of Milton Township, just like my Callin ancestors. Three of Benjamin’s and Nancy’s children – Caleb, Jonathan, and Lucinda – married three of James “2nd” Callin’s children: Elizabeth married Caleb, Sarah married Jonathan, and Hugh married Lucinda.

    The Callin farm was near the town of Olivesburg, which was named for Benjamin’s daughter, Olive. The History of Richland County says that Benjamin built the first grist mill in the township on the Whetstone, at Olivesburg, in 1817. That book also describes the town in 1821:

    “The village of Olivesburg was laid out by Benjamin Montgomery in the year 1816, and called Olivesburg in honor of his oldest daughter, Olive. In 1821, the village contained one tavern, kept by Benjamin Montgomery; one blacksmith-shop, by Abel Montgomery; one tailor-shop, by John Grum; one cabinet-shop, by Thomas Beach; one tannery, by Joseph Burget; one horse-mill and water-mill, by Jonathan Montgomery; one wheelwright-shop, by William Lee, or James Hall, and about the usual per cent of loafers.”

    Mary Callin, James “2nd”’s wife (mother of Elizabeth, Sarah, and Hugh), was a founding member of the Hopewell congregation, which met in Olivesburg.

    Dozens of little facts and coincidences of timing that make up the story of my early Callin family in Milton Township are inextricably linked with the Montgomerys – even though we are “only shirttails” to each other.

    Milton Township Side-Quests

    Montgomery is not the only surname that keeps popping up in Milton Township.

    Individuals from the Ferrell family can be found marrying more than one Montgomery, including Olive Montgomery, the sister of Caleb and Jonathan for whom Olivesburg was named. Elizabeth and Caleb’s oldest daughter, Mary, married a Ferrell, too.

    Olivesburg is still there, by the way. The Olivesburg General Store has been operating since the 1840s, so all of these people could have visited there at some point.

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    Olivesburg General Store – founded in the 1840s, when the Callin and Montgomery families still lived there

    Later in life, Olive also married Boston Burget, who was probably a relative of the tanner, Joseph Burget, and of Nancy Burget, who married Elizabeth’s brother, Thomas Callin.

    In the end, I ran out of time and resources and published what I knew in 2022. But I do take time to circle back with these families to see if I can learn more. One day, I’d like to be able to tell their whole stories. Until then, the best we can do is chase those tantalizing shirttails and see where they lead.

    They lead to a lot of places – and a lot of people.

    A Purely Maternal Line of Descent

    Following the Montgomery line led to dozens of new families as each generation of children proliferated across the country. I will never have time to find them all.

    Kim (Butze) Wheelwright (1946–2001) was born in Corvallis, OR, and died in Odgen, UT. She was born the same year as my dad, and we never met. I didn’t start doing research on the Callin Family History until 2015, and I didn’t track down her family’s line until after 2018. But, she and I were 6th cousins. Here’s her line back to our common ancestor:

    If you click on this link to James Callin’s WikiTree profile, and click the green “Show Descendants” button, you can see that line of descent down to Gertrude E (Bushnell) Froom; and take note that Kim would have to have gone back six generations to know that she had any Callins in her family tree.

    As I put this example together, I learned that Kim’s husband, A. Stuart Wheelwright, just passed away last December. If they see this post, I’d like to offer my condolences to his surviving family – particularly his two living daughters. (I did not know that he and Kim had any children until today when I read his obituary. I’m happy to learn my kids have two more 7th cousins, but sad at the price of that knowledge.)

    All of this means that in my quest to be thorough, and track down as many of James Callin’s descendants as possible, I opened up an enormous (and possibly endless) number of branching pathways connecting me to total strangers – who may or may not care about any of this history.

    Maybe someday some of them will find my work and marvel at the great complexity of it all. I hope so.

    Because marveling is the best part!

    Mightier Acorns keeps digging – if I uncover someone you recognize, say hello! Subscribe for free to receive new posts.

  • The Audience of One

    Who are we really doing this for?

    By this point in any New Year, you may have had your fill of annual retrospectives, best-of lists, motivational etudes, and resolutions. (If you haven’t, here are some good resources at Projectkin and Mission:Genealogy to help launch your New Year.)

    But if you’re like me, feeling leery of 2025 and what is waiting for us around the corner, you may be feeling a bit punk rock about things – a mix of general defiance and exhausted pugnacity.

    What keeps me going when the yawning, gravitational temptation of nihilistic futility beckons from the headlines? Why do this, of all things, when the world is on fire?

    The Work Is the Focus

    I don’t know what drew you to genealogy/family history – I don’t really know what drew me to it. How I got here doesn’t matter as much as the work itself.

    But what do I mean when I call it “the work” – it isn’t some single, coherent mission with an endpoint. There will never be a point at which I can state “I am done” because for as long as I live, there will be more history.

    When I say “the work is the focus,” I mean that the processes we go through, the steps we take, and the disciplines we learn are important.

    Maybe there was some idea in your mind of finding someone Notable in your direct ancestry, or some mystical or religious notion that sparked your initial entry to this world. But once you learned the skills necessary to do a proper job of telling and proving the stories about your ancestors, something probably changed. In the process of finding and evaluating evidence, and digging past the superficial legends that were handed down to you, you either drifted away from the work (and thus, are not reading essays like this one) or you adopted a more realistic vision of the past that let you continue.

    Critical Thinking Is Critical

    To my mind, there is no tool more important to the work of family history (or science, or any learning endeavor) than critical thinking. I may have mentioned this before:

    When you are researching your family history, it is critical (definition 3) that you think critically (definition 2) even if that means criticizing (definition 1) the existing stories that you think you know about your family.

    Getting better at thinking critically means getting in the habit of constantly asking, “How do you know that? And how do I know that?”

    Thinking critically also means evaluating yourself and your biases – understanding that “bias” is normal, and just refers to the shortcuts and assumptions that are necessary for a brain to process masses of information. A bias only becomes a problem if you don’t examine it and compare your results to the work of others – asking “How do I know that?” until you can be confident that your starting assumptions were correct.

    Once you have acquired that habit, you will find yourself applying critical thinking to the news and your daily interactions. This may be good because you will be more resistant to misinformation, but it can also be frustrating because those around you (often, people you care about and want to think well of) won’t want to confront their own biases and assumptions.

    For me, throwing myself into the work of genealogical research is an escape from the madness.

    Know Your Audience

    We have to be careful about escapism.

    And I can’t lie – a major motivation for me to put my thoughts and research into a blog (first on Blogger from 2009-2021 and now on Substack) is to curb my tendency to keep obsessively pursuing more information. Writing about the Work forces me to apply critical thinking to it; editing my essays forces me to question my assumptions and deconstruct the narratives that I, and my relatives, have built around the people in our past.

    So, writing is a necessity – but when you write, the first thing you have to identify is “who is my audience?” Every time I face the blank screen of a new post, who am I addressing?

    I am grateful that so many of you have found your way to my writing, and that you find value in what I have written. Your support and interaction encourage me to keep going when I doubt myself. And you inspire me constantly to think in new ways and to dig deep to find stories in the data.

    But… if I’m honest, I’m not writing these posts for you. You are necessary and welcome, but you are not my audience.

    And I am delighted when someone I’m related to, however distantly, finds their way to my work. Those moments when you find me and say hello are intensely gratifying, like payday, or that season-ending cliffhanger in a favorite show. Your attention is welcome, and I like to think that when I’m gone, the work I’ve done will be of use to descendants and cousins in the future.

    But again, if I’m honest, I’m not writing these posts for you, either. You are necessary and welcome, but you are not my audience.

    I hope that someday one or more of my children might take an interest in the work, but I also understand that it’s a lot to take in. It may take them as many years of study to comprehend what I’ve done here as it took for me to learn how to do it.

    So, while I’m writing for them in a distant, intellectual way, they are not my expected audience. They aren’t who I am addressing.

    There is only one person who has to care about the things that I write. There is one person whose opinion and engagement are indispensable to this project:

    It ME!

    Was that Humor or Ego?

    Both – and neither.

    The point I’m trying to make is that none of our projects will mean anything to other people if they don’t mean something to us, first.

    The thing that makes people want to read what you write is your obvious delight and satisfaction in writing it. And the only person who is required to read everything you write is also you – so make sure that person’s needs are being met.

    Whatever 2025 holds for us, take care of yourself. You deserve a good audience.

  • The Old Hopewell Presbyterian Church

    A brief history of an old institution

    Before 1803, when Ohio joined the United States, it was part of the vast Northwestern Territory. Established in 1787 by the Congress of the Confederation through the Northwest Ordinance, it was the nation’s first post-colonial incorporated territory. At the time of its creation, the territory’s land was home to several Native American cultures, including the Delaware, Miami, Potawatomi, Shawnee, and others.

    The European notion of “property ownership” and the attraction of vast, seemingly underdeveloped tracts of arable land drew increasing numbers of settlers looking to establish themselves in what they saw as unclaimed land. The conflicts between these settlers and Native American inhabitants resulted in the Northwest Indian War culminating in General “Mad” Anthony Wayne’s victory at the Battle of Fallen Timbers in 1794. The subsequent Treaty of Greenville in 1795 opened the way for settlement, particularly in southern and western Ohio.

    I suspect that my ancestor, James Callin, was a private in a mounted cavalry unit that fought under Wayne in the Battle of Fallen Timbers:

    Whether he fought there or not, two of his sons, James and John, settled in what would soon become Milton Township, Richland County, Ohio, around 1810.

    Becoming Ohio

    Milton Township was organized in Richland County, in 1816. Two years later, it was reduced in size to six miles square when Clear Creek Township was organized from the north half of Milton Township on 15 October 1818. When Ashland County was formed from portions of Huron, Lorain, Richland, and Wayne counties on 24 February 1846, Milton Township was again divided. The four columns of sections on the east were included in Ashland County (forming the territory on the map below), and the other two columns remained in Richland, where they were joined with part of old Franklin Township to create Weller Township. That left Milton with its present dimensions of four by six miles.

    map showing Milton Township, Ashland County, Ohio, in relation to Ashland and Mansfield
    Milton Township, Ashland County, Ohio

    Early Days: Statehood (1803) to 1816

    In the early days of settlement an occasional minister, either Presbyterian or Methodist, traversed this region. The pioneers would assemble in a log cabin to hear preaching. If the weather permitted, people often gathered in the forest, and sometimes in a log barn to hear a new minister.

    The Eckley Church was a log building erected in Vermillion Township. While it was the first church building built in the county, it was a “union building” – free to all Protestant ministers, occupied mostly by Methodists, who were the more numerous group.

    George William Hill assessed in his 1880 History of Ashland County, Ohio, that the first organized congregation was within Montgomery township. Its membership was largely composed of the residents of Milton township and was organized by the settlers who arrived from (mostly) Western Pennsylvania in 1815-1816.

    The Hopewell Congregation

    These people were visited by Rev. Joshua Beer, who preached a few sermons in the cabins of the pioneers. About the same time Rev. William Mathews also became a candidate for employment as pastor of the new congregation.

    In 1817, the Hopewell congregation was organized. It is not recorded whether they were aware of the Hopewell Culture that had lived on lands to their south for untold generations. The Hopewell congregation hired Mr. Mathews and employed him one-third of the time. The balance of his time was divided between Mt. Hope, in Perry, and Jeromesville, in Mohican township.

    Twenty-two members were received on certificates from other congregations and twelve on examination. In 1818, Robert Nelson and Abraham Doty were elected elders, ordained and installed. The members, according to Hill’s research, were:

    • Robert Nelson

    • Abraham Doty

    • David McKinney

    • William Huston

    • David Pollock

    • Abel Montgomery

    • William Andrews

    • George Ryall

    • Samuel Burns

    • David Burns

    • Jasper Snook

    • James Clingin

    • James Ferguson

    • Hance Hamilton

    • Thomas Cook

    • Robert Culbertson

    • Isaac Mathews

    • Jesse Mathews

    • William Lions

    • John Hall

    • George Hall

    • Samuel Urie

    • James Black

    • William Shilling

    • Mrs. Jane Burgett

    • Mrs. Mary Stevenson

    • Mary Vanoshand

    • Susan Vanmeter

    • Nancy Owens

    • Margaret and Mary Owens

    • Mary Callen (presumably the wife of James “2nd” Callin)

    • Nancy Starret

    • Obediah Ferrell

    • John Crabs

    • John Prosser

    • Joseph Scott

    • Elisha Kelley

    • Cornelius Eaton

    The Rev. William Mathews continued to spend a portion of his time at Hopewell until 1821. He was succeeded by Rev. Robert Lee who remained until 1826, when he was succeeded again by Rev. William Mathews. As before, Rev. Mathews devoted one-third of his time until 1833, when he was succeeded by Rev. James Robinson, who gave half his time, until 1837.

    The congregation, in the meantime, increased to about one hundred and fifty members. Around 1838, a lot was purchased in Ashland, and the congregation moved to a large frame church erected there.

    The minister officiating at that time was Rev. Samuel Hare. In 1839, Rev. S. N. Barnes supplied the pulpit. He was succeeded by Rev. Robert Fulton, then principal of Ashland Academy, who remained until 1841. He was succeeded by Rev. James Robinson, who remained until 1843, when he was succeeded by Rev. Samuel Moody, who was pastor until his demise, in 1856.

    The Service

    William Andrews and George Ryall were chosen to conduct the music. They were both considered excellent singers. They stood near the pulpit, on a platform, where they led the congregation to read or sing.

    Services began about ten o’clock and continued until about twelve o’clock, when there was a recess after which services continued for one or two hours. In the absence of the pastor, a leader was selected from among the church officers, who read a printed or written discourse for the edification of the members. This task frequently fell upon Elder Robert Nelson, who is said to have been a fluent reader.

    The Building

    In 1819 the congregants erected a hewed thirty by thirty-five-foot log church on what is now the Olivesburgh road, about one and a half miles west of Uniontown (now the city of Ashland).

    According to the recollection of Mr. John Nelson, son of Robert:

    “the building had a cabin roof, plank floors and door, plank benches without backs or cushions, the windows very high from the ground, the pulpit elevated after the old style, four or five steps, and boarded as high as a man’s shoulders. The church was heated, in winter, by a large box-stove, capable of receiving four-foot wood. The building was erected by tire voluntary efforts of the pioneers and members, some furnishing a quota of hewn timber, others, plank and boards, and others, clapboards, sash, glass and nails, while others, with teams, hauled the materials to tire ground where the church was to be erected.”

    History of Ashland County, Ohio, by George William Hill; pg. 84

    The church building served for twenty years before the congregation moved to the new building in Ashland in 1839. It stood unused until 1864, when Bishop Rappe of St. Edward Catholic Church purchased the “Old Hopewell” Presbyterian Church which had not been in use the previous 18 years. By that time, the original Hopewell congregation had dissolved and connected with other churches.

    The church burned to the ground in 1869.

    Dissolution

    A community is never just one person or just one family. There is only one Callin (“Mary Callen”) on the list above but she lived on a farm with her husband and his brother’s family. Between those two Callin families, they had 15 children – and whether they were all members of the church or not, they would have participated in the social life of the church and the town.

    But Mary’s husband, James, was killed by a neighbor named Sutton Fowler in 1820, and her brother-in-law, John, succumbed to tuberculosis in 1835. By 1839, when the growing Hopewell congregation moved to their building in Ashland, the 15 Callin cousins had begun to grow up, marry, and move away – often in groups that settled further to the west.

    By the mid-1840s, fewer than half of the Callin cousins remained in Ohio. Several of Mary’s sons moved to Iowa, where they were decimated by outbreaks of typhus and cholera. Mary had gone with them and is buried in Muscatine. The Scott family resettled in Winnebago County, Illinois, and the Fergusons took John’s wife, Elizabeth, with them to Auburn, Indiana.

    But by the time the Old Hopewell church burned down, very few Callin family members remained in the Ashland area to mourn it.

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  • Records Don't Tell the Stories

    They only point the way… the rest is up to us

    If you were a fly on the wall… or if I set up a Twitch stream… the scene that would play out in front of you might disrupt your image of the studious researcher.

    I know I like to think of myself as a jovial and sedate scholar, calmy reviewing search results and zeroing in on the information that lays out a sensible map of where my ancestors were, what they were doing, and when it all happened.

    But then there’s reality.

    Reality often involves me, in my pajamas at midday, craving a third cup of coffee and spluttering exasperated questions at my monitor.

    “How is he in Iowa? He’s supposed to be in Indiana?” (Frantically rechecking all place names beginning with “I” to make sure I didn’t confuse them.)

    “Wait – who is Eunice? I thought he married Elizabeth!!”

    “Why were they married in North Carolina??? THEY LIVED IN IOWA! No, wait… INDIANA! Augh!”

    Those who practice the art of profanity may insert words beginning with “f” as they see fit. I know I did.

    These outbursts were also periodically punctuated by me, raising a fist at the heavens and cursing the patriarchy for effectively erasing women from history at every opportunity.

    The Back Story

    I try to balance the posts you see between my family and my wife’s family. I believe my children (and perhaps, someday, grandchildren) deserve to see their whole family history and not just my half.

    So, when I look at my output on Mightier Acorns and see a growing imbalance, I dive back into the story of my in-laws. And the best stories come from asking questions about the gaps and anomalies. Today’s anomalies lie in the ancestry of my wife’s grandmother, June (Shuffler) McCullough.

    June’s great-grandfather, Valentine Shuffler, is overdue for an appearance in my Wavetops series, but most of the information about his parents comes from “received wisdom” – online trees and unsourced notes on Ancestry. To tell Valentine’s story, I have to know more about his mother…and anyone who has read Laura Numeroff’s “If You Give A Mouse a Cookie” knows where this story goes.

    At any rate, the scene I described above came out of my attempts to trace Valentine’s mother, Ruth Dyer, and her origins.

    Quakers On the Move

    The Religious Society of Friends kept extensive records of the lives of its members. Ruth Dyer’s parents were Friends – better known by outsiders as “Quakers” – but the Society’s records operate a little differently from the local county vital records I’m familiar with.

    For one thing, the Friends were a lot more intrusive than local governments were in the types of things they recorded. In addition to the expected birth/death/marriage records, the Friends recorded members’ movements and various actions or behaviors in which members might engage.

    According to this list of Quaker abbreviations found on the Indiana Genealogy website, INGenWeb.org, the Friends recorded disciplinary actions and infractions like “deviation from plainness of dress” (dp) or “using profane language” (upl) in addition to movements between congregations, known as Meetings.

    The key to understanding how this applies to the Dyer family lies in understanding that a member of a Meeting did not “officially” leave the Meeting until they gave written notice asking to be removed from the rolls. When Ruth’s father, George H. Dyer, moved from his home state of North Carolina to the western states of Indiana and Iowa, the Society in Stokes County, North Carolina, continued to record events related to George and his family.

    This was helpful, of course, because if not for the Society of Friends, I might not have found evidence to support George’s biography at all. But I had to do some digging to figure out how to interpret the records that have been digitized, and piecing it all together can lead to a series of outbursts that might draw an “upl” reprimand from your local Meeting.

    Interpretation of the Records

    I began with Ruth, so my task was to find records to tell me about her parents. Her 1852 marriage records established her maiden name as “Dyer” – and she was married in Marshall County, Indiana. I soon found a record on Ancestry that gave me her date of birth and the names of her parents – George and Elizabeth – but confusingly gave her birthplace as “Guilford, North Carolina” and her residence as “Wayne County, Indiana.”

    North Carolina marriage records show that George H. Dyer married Elizabeth Willetts on 15 Jun 1822 in Stokes County, NC. The U.S., Hinshaw Index to Selected Quaker Records, 1680-1940 gave me a record showing George, Elizabeth, and their first three daughters (and all five birth dates) recorded in the New Garden Monthly Meeting. That source placed the New Garden Meeting in Wayne County, Indiana.

    Knowing this led me to inspect the records turning up in both Indiana and North Carolina more closely, and I soon found this record from Ancestry’s U.S., Quaker Meeting Records, 1681-1935, which listed seven children born to “George and Elizabeth Dyre” with birth dates for all nine people, and county of birth for all of the children. The first three daughters clearly matched the three daughters in the New Garden record, and this new record was reported to the Dover Monthly Meeting.

    Friends Meetings are organized around an annual and monthly calendar, so records are usually sourced to (for example) “Dover Monthly Meeting” under the state “North Carolina Yearly Meeting” – and the Monthly Meeting should identify the “Meeting County” – in this case, Guilford County, NC.

    An 1839 entry in the Dover Monthly Meeting reported that the Meeting had received a certificate of marriage for George Dyer and Eunice Bishop from the Chester Monthly Meeting, and the “Society of Friends Records, 1803-1962” resource on IndianaHistory.org, told me that the Chester Monthly Meeting was also located in Wayne County, IN.

    More to the Story

    Now that I’ve learned enough to understand what the records are telling me, I have a lot of work left to do to untangle the facts and find the details that are left out. None of the records I have so far tell me when people died, but it’s pretty clear that Elizabeth died around 1837 – and several of the children for whom I have birth dates don’t show up in the household in 1850. Some of the children who are in that record may be from Eunice’s first marriage.

    There is a lot of exciting historical context implied by all of this, too. The Quakers in Wayne County were active abolitionists and helped escaped slaves find their way to freedom via the Underground Railroad through their county. I don’t yet know enough to tell whether the Dyer family was involved, but maybe that will be a story for another day.

    Marengo meetinghouse
    Galen Preparative Meeting House, built 1813; BICENTENNIAL MINUTE: The Quakers in Wayne County, By Loreen Jorgensen, Jan 5, 2023

    Thanks for reading Mightier Acorns! There’s always so much more to learn.

  • The Story of One of Us

    The lifetime of Margaret Forbes (1903–1997)

    As we begin a New Year, I thought I’d start with a biography of one of those “Mighty Acorns” I set out to discover so many years ago. A cousin of mine, but also a genealogist/family historian who left behind a significant piece of her family’s puzzle.

    Margaret Althea Forbes (1903–1997) was born on 20 August 1903 in Ashland, Ohio, the younger daughter of William Tawse and Amy Bernice (Sattler) Forbes. Her grandmother was born Mary Etta Callin – Margaret and her siblings are my 3rd cousins 2x removed.

    William was a telegraph operator for the Pacific Railroad – and he apparently used his middle name, “Tawse,” and not “William.” He and Amy had four children, starting with Margaret’s older sister, Marabelle Ada Forbes (1901-1995). The two younger brothers were Robert Lyle Forbes (1907–2008) and Scott Callin Forbes (1914–1979).

    The Spectre of Divorce

    Judging by the evidence in the City directories, Amy and Tawse had a rocky marriage in the years after Scott was born.

    In 1917, the Ashland City Directory lists “Forbes Amy S Mrs” at 711 Cottage and “The Nothern” at 717 Cottage. Tawse is not named in that edition of the directory—there are two other men named William (“Wm” living at 34 W. Main and “Wm C”, a bricklayer married to Emily and residing at 717 Ohio).

    On his World War I Draft Registration Card, dated 12 Sep 1918, Tawse gives his address as 525 Vine and lists his nearest relative as “Mrs. Jane Forbes” at that address. This is his mother. She appears in the 1919 Ashland City Directory at 525 Vine; Amy is again listed as the proprietor of The Northern at 711 Cottage.

    On the 1920 Census, Amy is listed as head of the household with her four children, managing the boarding house at 711 Cottage – and it says she is divorced. Strangely, Tawse Forbes (and Amy) are listed at that address in 1921. (So are “Wm” and “Wm C,” which is how I knew neither man was Tawse.)

    Amy married Robert Marion Greenlun (1880–1966) on 31 July 1923, convincing evidence that she was divorced from Tawse. Bob moved into 711 Cottage and worked for the state highway department. In 1930, they still appear to have been operating the Northern Hotel boarding house, as the census lists five boarders, but by 1940, everyone in the household was a relative.

    Margaret Comes of Age

    Margaret graduated from Ashland High School in about 1921. Her sister, Marabelle, had married Noah C. Shull (1897-1986) in 1919, but marriage was not the choice Margaret made. She remained in her mother’s home at 711 Cottage and probably worked as a clerk for several businesses in Ashland.

    The start of the war opened up an opportunity, and she went to Dayton in 1943 to work at Wright-Patterson Air Force Base. Evidence suggests that she was posted to Hickam Field, Hawaii, for a year, and returned to the mainland in Dec 1944 aboard the S.S. President Johnson.

    Margaret remained a civilian Air Force employee for 22 years, sometimes working at different locations, but most of the city directories during the 1950s show her residing at her mother’s home at 711 Cottage, so she may have spent most of her career at the Shelby depot. Established as “Army Air Force Supply Depot” in Shelby, Richland County, Ohio, in 1943, the facility survived the war and was renamed Wilkins Air Force Specialized Depot after the Air Force became a separate service.

    The Richland Source, “Then & Now: Army Air Force Depot in Shelby 1943,” 7 Feb 2017 – The photo was not labeled, but I don’t think that’s Margaret.

    The Shelby depot was closed in January 1961, leaving only a single independent depot, the Dayton Air Force Depot at Gentile Air Force Station, Ohio. Margaret may have finished her career there.

    Becoming One Of Us

    After her retirement in 1965, Margaret traveled to Scotland six times to follow up her Forbes family tree. She was a member of the Ohio and Ashland Genealogical Society and, in her eighties, volunteered at the Ashland County Historical Society’s Museum.

    In 2019, I wrote to the Ashland County Genealogical Society (ACCOGS), asking whether they had any research donated by Margaret. They initially came up empty and referred me to Richland County, which forwarded my query to the Ohio Genealogical Society. Tom Neel, Library Director at Samuel D. Isaly Library for the OGS, was able to confirm that Margaret Forbes, Ashland, Ohio, was a member of the Ohio Genealogical Society from 1976 to 1982.

    Unfortunately, none of these organizations were able to find any materials donated by Margaret. However, Mr. Neel mentioned my query at a meeting, and one longtime member of the Ashland County Chapter thought to check the chapter’s collection at the Ashland Public Library, where they found a typewritten “History of the William Forbes Family” filed under “Martha Forbes,” which turned out to be Margaret’s work.1

    While I would have loved to find more information about her Callin heritage, it is understandable that she would focus on her father’s line. But – Margaret was not the only family historian I discovered while assembling the Callin Family History. (More on that another day!)

    Endings

    Tawse Forbes left Ohio after his divorce and was living in Minnesota when his mother died in 1933. By 1942, he was back in Ashland. He died of a heart attack while working as a night clerk at the Southern Hotel on 3 January 1956.

    Bob Greenlun died in the Collins Nursing Home in Hayesville at the age of 86 in May 1966. Amy S. Greenlun died at her home at 711 Cottage a year later, on 7 September 1967, at age 92.

    Scott Callin Forbes, the youngest child of Amy and Tawse, was 64 when he died at the Veterans Administration Medical Center, Biloxi, Miss., on 1 July 1979. He was survived by two sons and a daughter.

    Marabelle (Forbes) Shull died at Good Shepherd Nursing Home in Ashland on 5 March 1995. She was 92 and was survived by two sons, Lyle Richard Shull (1921–2001) and Ronald James “Jim” Shull (1924–2013).

    Robert Lyle Forbes lived to be 100 years old and died on 31 March 2008 at Vitas Healthcare, Laud Lakes, Florida. He and his wife, Eva, never had children of their own.

    Margaret died on 24 August 1997 at Kingston of Ashland when she was 94 years old.

    Margaret Forbes, at home – 22 August 1994

    Much of the information in this biography is based on a profile published in the Ashland Time-Gazette the day before her 90th birthday. Her own Forbes family history said only: “Margaret Althea, born 1903. She never married and lives in Ashland, Ohio.”

    I have noticed that when we get into researching our family histories, we all tend to de-emphasize ourselves and view our lives as mundane or unadventurous. Margaret did this, too. But even though there are a million identical stories of individuals who lived quiet lives in their corner of history, each one is worth remembering.

    Mightier Acorns is dedicated to remembering as many as we can. Everyone is part of the tree – and has a story.

    1

    I uploaded this document as a PDF under Margaret’s profile in my “Callin Family History – G.W. Callin 1911” tree on Ancestry. If you are interested in it and can’t access that link, let me know and I can email it.

  • The Case of the Missing Bellamys

    The family of Sarah Jane (Bellamy) Clark

    Sarah Jane Bellamy was born in Cabell County, Virginia, on 17 December 1836. She is my maternal grandfather’s paternal grandmother—and she is one of My Sixteen. Since writing about her grandfather, Matthew Bellamy, in The Slaveholders, I have spent some time improving the WikiTree profiles for this family, and most of that time has been focused on learning as much as I can about Sarah’s siblings.

    One more NOTE: I have a hard time pinning down who in this family spelled the name “Bellamy” and who spelled it “Bellomy”—I assume it was “Bellamy” unless there is evidence (like a headstone or obituary) that tells me the person had another preference.

    memorial image from Find A Grave
    Sarah J (Bellamy) Clark marker – Photo added by Emily Kelley

    Beginning With Bennett

    Sarah’s parents were Bennett and Jane (West) Bellamy. Since Bennett’s mother was Nancy West, and both the Bellamy and West families lived in Bedford County, Virginia, we assume that he and Jane were cousins, but we don’t know how distant.

    Bennett and Jane were married on 30 Aug 1831 in Cabell County, Virginia, according to unsourced information on public trees. (I recall being told that information was recorded in a family bible, but I don’t have any confirmation.) The 1850 Census1 shows this family living in Greenup County, Kentucky, and indicates that their oldest child was Matthew, age 18 (thus, born about 1832) – and their youngest, Benard F., was born in January 1859. Jane does not appear on the 1860 Census, so we assume she died between Benard’s birth and the enumeration of the 1860 Census on 11 July 1860.2

    As far as we know, Bennett Bellamy and Jane West had 14 children in the 28 years between 1832 and 1860:

    • Matthew Bellamy (1832–?)

    • Nancy A (Bellamy) Dixon (1832–abt. 1900)

    • Mary Elizabeth S Bellomy (1835–1912)

    • Sarah Jane (Bellamy) Clark (1836–1920)

    • Jesse W Bellomy (1838–?)

    • Columbia (Bellomy) Whitmore (1839–1927)

    • Thomas J Bellomy (1840–1862)

    • Joseph William Bellamy (1843–1904)

    • Eliza E Bellamy (b. 1847)

    • Cleopatra “Claspa” Bellamy (b. 1849)

    • Caroline (Bellamy) Spicer (1853–1893)

    • James W Bellamy (1853–1853)

    • Catherine Bellamy (1855–1855)

    • Benard Franklin Bellomy (1859–1938)

    The 1850 and 1860 census records are mostly helpful in confirming what we know about these children. The birth dates and places of birth are not reliable and are sometimes contradicted by what the children later put on their vital records, obituaries, or grave markers. But we see everyone we expect to see on those two records, with two exceptions:

    1. Nancy was married to Peter Dixon by 1860, so she appears in his household in Boyd County, Kentucky.

    2. Jesse W. is simply not found in 1860.

    Caroline and Benard were born after 1850, so they are not listed then, but everyone else was in both records.

    The Knowns

    Later records let us trace ten of the 14 Bellamy children.

    Nancy was married to Peter Dixon (as mentioned above).

    Mary Elizabeth never married, but from 1880, she took care of her youngest sibling, Benard, and she lived with him and his family (mistakenly listed as his mother, due to their age difference) in Columbus, Ohio.

    Sarah Jane Bellamy married Joel Clark (they are my 2nd-great grandparents).

    Columbia Bellamy married William Whitmore; she died in Huntington, Cabell County, WV.

    Their brothers, Thomas and Joseph, joined the Union Army; Joseph survived and raised his family in Ashland. Thomas was killed early in the conflict.

    Caroline married James Spicer in Cincinnati, OH, and died in 1893.

    Two children died young – James W at six months in 1853, and Catherine at birth in 1855.

    The Known Unknowns

    1. Nancy (Bellamy) Dixon appears to have survived her husband, but I don’t know when she died. They lived in Fayette County, Ohio, about 135 miles northwest of Huntington, WV.

    2. Matthew Bellamy (b. 1832) is a mystery. He appears in the two aforementioned census records, and he may be the unmarried Matthew Bellamy listed in U.S., Civil War Draft Registrations Records, 1863-1865 in 1863 – but I don’t know where he went after that.

    The Unkown Unknowns

    1. Jesse W Bellomy (b. 1838) only appears in the 1850 Census. Several trees online confuse him with his brother, Thomas J. Bellomy, the Union soldier – but they are both on the 1850, so that’s not correct. (Thomas is listed as “Jefferson” in 1860, which may explain the confusion.) I don’t know if he died young or moved away, or if he simply appears by a middle name in later records.

    1. & 9. Eliza and Cleopatra Bellamy were probably married by 1880, but there is no evidence of that. They could have died, or been married somewhere other than in Kentucky, and the best place to look for clues would be…

    The Missing 1870 Census Record

    Bennett Bellamy married Sarah Dixon on 5 June 1862, in Boyd County. I assume he needed help raising his younger children; but after he died in 1867, I can’t find most of his surviving family on the 1870 Census.

    I think I found Bennett’s widow living under the name Sarah Bellamy in the home of George O Dixon in Greenup County, KY, but none of the Bellamy children are there.

    We’ve already discussed some of the known/married siblings – like Nancy and Sarah – and I’ve looked at other closely related Bellamy families found in the 1870 Census. I have looked carefully at their neighbors on the preceding and following pages to see if I could find evidence that relatives or neighbors took the missing kids in.

    I hoped to find that Matthew or Jesse, or perhaps Mary Elizabeth (maybe listed as “Lizzie”) might have stepped into the role of Head of Household. Lizzie was caring for her brother Benard in 1880, and it is possible that in 1870 they might have also lived with their three sisters, Eliza, Cleopatra, and Caroline.

    Since Caroline married in 1872, she should have been in that theoretical household, even if the two older sisters married sooner than that. (I didn’t find any Bellamys living in a household with a woman named “Cleopatra” – or “Eliza,” though that one is harder to rule out.)

    It’s possible the lot of them moved across the river into Lawrence County, Ohio, or into a neighboring county (Greenup, or Cabell County, WV), but I didn’t find any hits when I searched those three states.

    Conclusions

    With so many gaps, and so many records either missing or unavailable, it is difficult to reach any conclusions about what happened to the missing siblings, or where everybody else went in 1870. But, for now, I will content myself with documenting what I can on WikiTree and circling back later.

    In the meantime, if you’re a Bellamy/Bellomy descendant and you have any insights, email me or:

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    1

    1850 United States Federal Census; Place: District 2, Greenup, Kentucky; Record Group Number: 29; Series Number: M432; Roll: 202; Page: 195a; Lehi, UT, Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2009.

    2

    1860 United States Federal Census; Place: Boyd, Kentucky; Record Group Number: 29; Series Number: M653; Roll: M653_356; Page: 751; Family History Library Film: 803356; Lehi, UT, Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2009.

  • 50 Years of Christmas Cards

    More of Aunt Vicki’s legacy

    We lost my Aunt Vicki this summer.

    But before she left, Vicki spent her time on countless thoughtful projects that will continue to remind us what was most important to her.

    Her son, Jeff, was the first of my generation of cousins, and for Christmas of 2021, Vicki assembled 50 years’ worth of Christmas cards and snapshots into a book, which she had printed by a small (and, unfortunately, unknown!) press.

    It’s a remarkable keepsake, blending highlights from each year and putting names to faces that might otherwise be forgotten by later generations.

    A lot of these pictures are very personal – why I’m not sharing in more detail – but some pages are gems for future family historians. Take this gathering from 1980, centered on my Great-grandmother, Hannah Merle Witter, with all of her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren:

    Hannah Merle (Huff) Witter and all of her descendants, 1980
    Hannah Merle (Huff) Witter and all of her descendants, 1980

    (That blond, gap-toothed doofus in the blue vest, left of Great-grandma Merle? That’s me.)

    Thanks for reading Mightier Acorns! I hope your holidays are full of good memories, and that our New Year treats you and yours well.